{"id":14,"date":"2021-01-20T10:38:58","date_gmt":"2021-01-20T10:38:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/?p=14"},"modified":"2021-05-17T02:00:37","modified_gmt":"2021-05-17T02:00:37","slug":"when-friendly-turns-not-so-friendly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/when-friendly-turns-not-so-friendly\/","title":{"rendered":"When friendly turns not-so-friendly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/newsite\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Nervous\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-300x157.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-1024x535.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-768x401.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-1536x803.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Nervous-min-2048x1070.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It seems to be the catch cry of all dog owners that have friendly dogs, who sometimes don\u2019t listen. \u201cMy dog is friendly\u201d. You\u2019ll hear them yelling from 300 mtrs behind their dog as it comes barrelling toward you. But, when will it be time to understand that whether your dog is \u201cfriendly\u201d or not isn\u2019t the point?<\/p>\n<p>I want to preface this with the fact that I am not a professional dog trainer or behaviorist, I am just Raffertys mum. A mum to an anxious boy who copes with most situations\u2026&#8230;until he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>One of the situations he doesn\u2019t cope with is a dog running at him full speed with no sign of stopping. I\u2019ll tell you one thing, if some strange person was running at me full speed and not stopping, I wouldn\u2019t be asking them out for coffee and a chat!<\/p>\n<p>The fact that a dog, under normal circumstances, is super friendly, playful and full of love, doesn\u2019t always mean that will be the case when faced with an unsure dog who may hackle, growl or simply tense.<\/p>\n<p>Think of it this way. Most of us are normal, happy fun loving humans who will have a chat and are generally friendly, but if you were jogging along a road and out of nowhere appeared a man, that you didn\u2019t know who was bigger than you and he was coming toward you at speed staring in your direction, you probably wouldn\u2019t smile and ask how his day was, would you?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d probably back away, look defensive and if he didn\u2019t stop, find a way to defend yourself just in case, and when that man got to you, he may be wondering why you look so defensive when all he wanted to do was say Hi. Well, that\u2019s what your \u201cfriendly\u201d dog may do as well. They come flying down to an unsure dog only to be greeted with a defensive, scared and tense body that says I\u2019m ready to fight if I have to and all of a sudden your \u201cfun-loving, friendly\u201d dog may just decide, based on the body language of the other dog that they should be fighting, and become the aggressor.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019re thinking, \u201cMy dog would never do that\u201d but here\u2019s the thing, they\u2019re a dog! You really only have an educated guess as to how they\u2019ll react in that situation. The trouble is, because your dog is usually \u201cfriendly\u201d you may find he or she starts a fight they aren\u2019t prepared for, and neither are you.<\/p>\n<p>And here lies the problem.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not about if you have a friendly dog or the other dog is not-so-sure, it\u2019s a case of \u201cWhy did you place your dog at risk?\u201d We know you didn\u2019t do it on purpose, we all want what\u2019s best for our dogs, as you would any member of your family, so please don\u2019t take the risk that your \u201cfriendly\u201d dog may run into a dog who may be injured, sore, scared or anxious and risk the health of both of them. If you lived on a highway, you wouldn\u2019t let your 2 legged kids run around free next to the road and just hope that every driver was alert enough not to cause them harm, because you feel they need to be able to run? You\u2019d find them a safe space to run and be a kid, and you should be doing the same for your 4-legged kids.<\/p>\n<p>All dogs, big, small, friendly and not-so-sure deserve the chance to run free and feel safe in their environment and that\u2019s why I am hoping that Australia will support Sniffspace and our journey to provide Safe. Secure. Sniffari spaces for all dogs to simply be..<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Written by Tracey, Co-Founder of Sniffspace, Rafferty\u2019s mum and not a dog trainer. All views are my personal opinions and may not be valid in every situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems to be the catch cry of all dog owners that have friendly dogs, who sometimes don\u2019t listen. \u201cMy dog is friendly\u201d. You\u2019ll hear them yelling from 300 mtrs behind their dog as it comes barrelling toward you. But, when will it be time to understand that whether your dog is \u201cfriendly\u201d or not &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/when-friendly-turns-not-so-friendly\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n<p><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14\/revisions\/18"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sniffspace.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}